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Reaching out After Getting Rejected - Seeking Feedback
Converting rejection into learning opportunity
Subject
Thank you for the opportunity - seeking feedback
Alternate subject lines
Email body
Hi [Name], I hope you're doing well! I wanted to reach out to thank you for the opportunity to interview for the [Job Title] position at [Company Name]. While I'm disappointed that it didn't work out this time, I really enjoyed [specific positive aspect - e.g., "learning about your team's technical challenges" or "the system design discussion with [interviewer name]" or "the culture I experienced during the interview"]. I'm committed to improving my skills and would be incredibly grateful if you could share any feedback on my interview performance. Specifically: • Areas where I could have done better • Skills or knowledge gaps I should address • Any advice for future opportunities I understand you might be busy, so even a few brief points would be immensely valuable for my growth. I'd love to stay connected and hope to cross paths again in the future. [Company Name] is doing amazing work, and I'll continue following your progress! Thank you again for your time and consideration. Best regards, [Your Name] [LinkedIn Profile]
Tips for success
- Send within 24-48 hours of rejection
- Express genuine gratitude despite rejection
- Be humble and open to feedback
- Don't be defensive or argumentative
- Keep the door open for future opportunities
Do's and don'ts
Do
- Thank them sincerely for the opportunity
- Be specific about what you appreciated
- Ask for constructive feedback
- Show commitment to improvement
- Maintain professionalism and grace
Don't
- Don't argue with the decision
- Don't be passive-aggressive
- Don't demand detailed feedback
- Don't burn bridges
- Don't send angry or emotional messages
Placeholders
[Name]Recruiter or interviewer's first name[Company Name]Company name[Job Title]Position you interviewed for[Specific positive aspect]Something you appreciated about the process[Your Name]Your full name[LinkedIn Profile]Your LinkedIn URLFollow-up email
7-10 days after initial email if no responseFollowing up - Feedback request
Hi [Name], I hope you're doing well! I wanted to follow up on my request for feedback on my interview for the [Job Title] position. I completely understand if you're unable to provide detailed feedback. Even high-level guidance would be helpful for my professional growth. Thank you again for the opportunity! Best regards, [Your Name]
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